Homophobia is A Social Disease

This is my government project for my Participation in Government class. It is about the many challenges and hardships that gay people in society face. *God has given you one face, and you make yourself another one.-William Shakespeare*

Tuesday, May 1, 2007

Why So Colorful?

If you look at my blog and all of the posts, you will notice that I use the colors red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and violet as the font colors for each post. If you are wondering why, well it's because these are the colors of the rainbow and the rainbow is the pride flag for gay people. Everyone pretty much knows that the rainbow represents being gay, but no one really knows why it's a representation for that.

The flag was first displayed during the 1978 Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade in San Franscisco. It was designed by Gilbert Baker. It it used as a symbol of gay and lesbian pride at marches and everywhere. It is also known as the freedom flag. It is displayed on cars, in windows, and on poles in some towns. The flag is now shown with the traditional colors of the rainbow and six stripes, but it wasn't always like that. The original flag had eight stripes. The colors were hot pink, red, orange, yellow, green, turquoise, blue, and violet. Each color stripe had a different meaning special to the gay community.


hot pink-sexuality
red-life
orange-healing
yellow-sunlight
green-nature
turquoise-magic
blue-serenity
violet-spirit

The flag was soon modified because of the difficulty to make multiple amounts of flags because of the shortage of hot pink fabric. After that the flag was cut to seven stripes, all of the same except without the hot pink stripe. Later on, because of a displaying problem, Baker decided to cut the flag down again to six stripes. He eliminated the turquoise strip and kept the rest of them. This is how the flag became the way it is now. Sometimes the flag can also be seen with a black stripe at the bottom to represent those who were lost to AIDS. The flag is now seen around the world and is a staple in the gay community. I bet that you won't catch a gay person without seeing the flag, but now you no a little history about it, so you don't have to be oblivious about the colors.



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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rainbow_flag

Monday, April 30, 2007

A Brief History of Gay Athletes

A brief history of gay athletes:
1920

Bill Tilden, who does not hide his homosexuality, wins the men's singles title at Wimbledon. He goes on to win two more Wimbledon titles, seven U.S. championships, and leads U.S. teams to seven Davis Cup victories. In 1950, a survey of sportswriters names Tilden the greatest tennis player of the half-century. He dies in 1953.

1968

Tom Waddell, a 30-year-old Army physician, places sixth in the Olympic decathlon. Waddell, who is openly gay, becomes increasingly involved in gay politics. In 1976, Waddell and his partner Charles Deaton are the first gay men to be featured in the "Couples" section of People magazine. Five years later, Waddell forms San Francisco Arts and Athletics to plan the first "Gay Olympic Games."

1975

David Kopay, an NFL running back who played for five teams (San Francisco, Detroit, Washington, New Orleans, Green Bay) between 1964-72, becomes the first professional team-sport athlete to come out -- doing so three years after retiring. He admits his homosexuality during an interview with the now-defunct Washington Star.

1981

Billie Jean King is "outed" when ex-lover Marilyn Barnett sues her for "galimony" while she is married to Larry King. King is currently preparing to launch her own Billie Jean Foundation that will support gay and lesbian youths.

Martina Navratilova publicly reveals that she is a lesbian during an interview with the New York Daily News.

1982

The first Gay Olympic Games takes place in San Francisco.

1983

Bob Paris wins the Mr. America and Mr. Universe bodybuilding titles. In 1989, he reveals his homosexuality to the bodybuilding community during an interview with Ironman magazine. He also weds his long-time partner Rod Jackson-Paris and discusses the marriage on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

1985

Ed Gallagher, an offensive lineman for the University of Pittsburgh from 1977-79, jumps from a dam 12 days after his first sexual encounter with another man. He survives but is left a paraplegic. Gallagher says that before his suicide attempt, he had become unable to reconcile his image of himself as an athlete with gay urges. He later admits that the incident forced him to come to grips with his sexuality: "I was more emotionally paralyzed then, than I am physically now."

1987

Jerry Smith, a tight end with the Washington Redskins from 1965-77, dies of AIDS complications. Smith never acknowledged that he was gay, but in David Kopay's autobiography, Smith was described as his first love.

1988

Dave Pallone, a National League umpire, is fired for his alleged involvement with a teenage sex ring. The charges are deemed groundless and the investigation is dropped. According to Pallone, the real reason he was fired was the fact that he was gay. He had privately come out to then-National League President Bart Giamatti, who caved in to pressure from National League owners who called for Pallone's firing. According to his widow, it was a decision Giamatti regretted.

Bruce Hayes, an Olympic swimmer who won a gold medal in 1984 as a member of the 800-meter freestyle relay, comes out publicly at the Gay Games and wins seven gold medals in competition.

Justin Fashanu, a top soccer player in Britain, reveals that he is gay. He is the first athlete in a team sport to come out during his athletic career. After publicly coming out, Fashanu was described by others as "erratic." At one point, he makes the claim, which he eventually retracts, that he had sex with two British cabinet ministers. Fashanu commits suicide in 1998 at the age of 36. His body is found hanging in an abandoned garage in East London. At the time, he was wanted in the U.S. on charges of sexually assaulting a teenager in Maryland. 1991

Rene Portland, Penn State University women's basketball coach, states that she has a policy of forbidding lesbians from playing on her team.

1992

Matthew Hall, a figure skater on the Canadian National Team, comes out. Roy Simmons, an offensive guard for the New York Giants and the Washington Redskins from 1979-83, reveals he is gay during an appearance on The Phil Donahue Show.

1993

David Slattery, general manager of the Washington Redskins in the early 1970's, comes out. Glenn Burke, former outfielder with the Los Angeles Dodgers and the Oakland A's who was known for popularizing the high five, comes out publicly during an interview. He was released from his contract with the A's in 1979, ending his career at age 26. During the same interview in which he admits his homosexuality, Burke says he believes he was traded from the Dodgers because management suspected his was gay. By the early 1990s, Burke was living on the streets in the Bay area, plagued by personal problems and a drug addiction. He dies of AIDS complications in 1995.

1994

Gay Games IV is held in New York City. The event attracts more than 11,000 participants in 31 events, making it the largest athletic competition in history. In a waiver of U.S. policy, Attorney General Janet Reno allows HIV-positive individuals from outside the United States to enter the country, without special permits, to attend the Games.

Greg Louganis, four-time Olympic gold medalist in diving who becomes HIV-positive, comes out in public at the Gay Games.

Missy Giove, an openly lesbian mountain biker, wins her first world title. Considered the Michael Jordan of her sport, she subsequently wins back-to-back world titles in 1996 and '97. 1995

Ian Roberts, one of Australia's most popular rugby players, poses nude for a gay magazine. In the same issue, Roberts speaks about being "part of a different group ... an outsider." He becomes the first major sports figure in Australia to come out. Roberts soon becomes a fixture at a variety of gay events, and his endorsements increase.

1996

Muffin Spencer-Devlin, an 18-year LPGA veteran, speaks about being a lesbian in the March 18 issue of Sports Illustrated.

Rudy Galindo, the national men's skating champion, discusses being a gay man in the book Inside Edge: A Revealing Journey Into the Secret World of Figure Skating. Doug Mattis, another professional skater, comes out not long afterward.

David Pichler and Patrick Jeffrey, two openly gay U.S. divers, compete in the Atlanta Olympics.

1998

Michael Muska, a former track-and-field coach at Auburn and Northwestern, is named athletic director at Oberlin College. Muska is the first openly gay man to hold such a position in college sports.

Paul Priore, a former New York Yankees clubhouse assistant, files a lawsuit on July 29 against Yankee pitchers Jeff Nelson and Mariano Rivera and former Yankee pitcher Bob Wickman. Priore claims that he was humiliated with gay-bashing remarks, harassed and threatened with sexual assault. He also says he was fired because he has contracted the AIDS virus.

Greg Louganis, in a special Goodwill Games edition of New York 1 News' nightly sports program, says that several athletes in professional team sports have asked him for advice about going public with their homosexuality. Brian Orser, former world figure skating champion and two-time Canadian Olympic silver medalist, is revealed in November as gay in an palimony suit filed by an ex-boyfriend. In an affidavit in which he argued to keep the suit's documents sealed, Orser says, "Other skaters, both Canadian and American, guard their gayness closely because of the likely impact of public disclosure on their careers."


Homosexuality in Sports

In the world today, sexuality is like everything. Since there are so many different sexual orientations, it's kind of helpful to be clear about your sexuality. In sports, especially, male sports, the sexual orientation of the players is usually straight because, sports are a "manly" activity and gay men are well, not "manly", right? Who is to say what is manly or not? But, I digress, that's beside the point that I am trying to make. The point that I am saying is that, in male sports, the athletes are supposed to be straight, but when some of them reveal themselves to be gay, there is chaos. The straight athletes begin to think of all the times that they shared showers and seen each other naked in the locker room with the now openly gay athletes. They begin to think of whether or not the gay athletes were attracted to them the whole time they were teammates or whatever. This of course leads to questions and homophobia. The straight athletes feel threatened that they had a gay guy around them in their most private moments.

There are different reactions however. I asked three teen aged boys that play basketball on teams, all from different schools and teams, how they would feel if one of their teammates came out and said that that he was gay? I will call them Boy A, Boy B, and Boy C to protect their identities. When asked, Boy A said that he would be mad, he didn't give an explanation of why. Boy B said that he would feel "bad, weird, strange, uncomfortable, but then again depends how close we were." When asked why, he said "I dunno, natural reaction." Boy C said that it wouldn't matter to him as long as he didn't receive any sexual advances from that player. He admits that it would feel a bit weird, but there is nothing he could do to change that.

All of their answers were very similar, but not the same. However, they did have one common reaction. They all would feel some kind of strange feeling or animosity toward that person. I guess it's because of the closeness that players feel and then they may feel that that closeness and the bond is betrayed. Also, they could feel that people will think that they are gay as well, since their teammate is gay. Of course, this is not true, but just one of the many misconceptions and ignorants of homophobic people. This type of behavior and judgement affects many people and can ruin careers. Maybe gay athletes will have to reconsider whether or not they want to come out and at what times. Let's see what the future holds.


http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2004/07/08/national/main628303.shtml
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Repressed Homosexuals

Many studies have been done to prove that homophobia is actually caused by repressed homosexuality. This means that the men and women who claim that they hate gay people are totally against homosexuality, in fact really are gay and have sexual feelings towards members of the same sex. None of the studies however, has been proven, but science does suggest that this is true. More studies have to done to prove it. They also have to done differently than they were done in the past. The studies should be conducted with gay men as well, to compare the results. For now, people will believe that homophobia is caused by repressed homosexuality.

When the study was done, proclaimed homophobic men were shown images of homosexual men as well as non-homophobic men. During the study, it showed that the homophobic men had some kind of arousal when they looked at the images, as opposed to the non-homophobic men, who didn't get aroused. The study is not completely accurate, but it shows some significance. I think that the theory may have some truth to it. Normally when people have a dislike for something, but inside they really like it, they begin to dislike it even more, which then turns to hate. That is the same way with homophobic people. They are taught and believe that homosexuality is wrong, but when they develop homosexual feelings, they begin to hate it even more because they know, that they could never lead that type of lifestyle.

I don't support homophobia, but I believe that its justifiable that repressed homosexuals are homophobic because they don't want to give up on their beliefs that homosexuality is wrong, and I don't believe that people should give up on what they believe in. They should stand up for what they believe in, even if other people think that it is morally wrong. Either way, this is a mental issue. These people have feelings that they have that are being hidden and buried inside of them. They should get help for those feelings, or make a choice of what they want to do with their lives: be gay or hate what they really are inside. It's really a inside choice.


Saturday, March 10, 2007

Men on the Down Low and the HIV

It seems like a rising "trend" that many men who claim to be straight and engage in sexual activity with women also engage in sexual activity with men. These men are labeled as being on the "down low", which derives from the slang term "down low", which means to keep a secret. These men do not identify themselves as homosexual or bisexual, but heterosexual, when they really aren't. One thing that can identify themselves as is HIV positive. Many of these men, as well as men that only sleep with other men, are HIV positive as a result of unprotected sex. HIV is very popular among gay men and men on the "down low."

The men that are on the down low, however, often spread the virus to their wives or girlfriends that they are having sex with while having sex with other men. This makes the percentage of women with HIV higher. Women with HIV makes the total percentage of people in the world so much greater than it should be or anyone wants it to be.


HIV is a very huge problem in the world and it's not getting any better. When people are lied to and betrayed, especially by their lovers, it could mean their life, which men on the "down low" prove exact. Anyone who is engaging in sexual activity should be very careful and protect themselves all of the time because they never know what could happen.


Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Pursue, Don't Harass

First implemented in 1993, because of President Clinton, the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Don't Pursue, Don't Harass" policy was created. This policy was created to protect gay people in the military. Before the policy was created, every service member had to reveal their sexual orientation and if they were gay, lesbian, or bisexual they could not join or they were dishonorably discharged from the military. Gay people were not allowed to be in the military because "homosexuality is incompatible with military service", which was the previous policy of the military.

Now, the military has a policy that says that members must not speak about their sexual orientation if they happen to be homosexual or bisexual, cannot have any sexual contact with a member of the same sex, and cannot marry a person of the same sex. If the service members violate any of these rules, they can be investigated and discharged. This policy is not only for members, but also for commanders. The commanders are not to ask members if they are homosexual and cannot harass them because of that. With the policy in effect, many discharged members still consist of those discharged due to sexual orientation. The policy has done nothing but increased these statistics.

Within the policy, there isn't supposed to be any asking, harassing, or pursuing of gay people, but that happens all of the time. A Defense Department survey taken in 2000 showed that 80% of service members heard jokes, derogatory names, offensive language, and remarks towards gay people. All of this happens while the commanders do nothing. Sometimes they are even the ones to do it. When members try to report this kind of behavior, they are discouraged by the fact that they could be questioned and even discharged.

I think that the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy would be a good idea if both sides abided by it. What I mean by this, is that if all of the conditions of the policy were followed, which includes not asking, not telling, not pursuing, and not harassing about sexual orientation, then the policy would actually work. I think that gay people should have the right to be in the military and serve their country, just as anyone else. When it comes to defending America all people should be able to do what they feel is right, and that is fighting for their country.


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A Real Plea? The Gay Panic Defense

A weird and unusual legal defense that can be used in court to justify gay hate crimes is called the "gay panic defense." Similar to the plea of insanity that many people often use to get out of their legal troubles, the gay panic defense can help murderers of gay people never see jail time. The way it works is simple; just say that a gay person came on to you and it made you so angry and humiliated that you had to kill him/her. In a court in West Virginia and Georgia, the gay panic defense may actually work. It has worked in the past. Dean Ludwig Bethoven from Harrisville, West Virginia was acquitted of murder after he killed Dean Pickman, who allegedly gave Bethoven a ride home from a bar and then took him home and licked condiments off of his body while he was sleep. Bethoven told the jury that he "went crazy" and used the gay panic defense and the jury acquitted him of the charges. In Georgia, a man was acquitted for confessing that he beat a man to death who he claimed performed oral sex on him at gunpoint. One of the defendants in the highly publicized Matthew Shepard murder case tried to use the gay panic defense, but did not get away with it and was convicted of first-degree felony murder.

Although used in the past and successfully, the gay panic defense doesn't always work and is being fought against by many lawyers, activists, prosecutors, and police officers to have it removed from court systems and have it removed as an option to be acquitted of charges. Some states, including California, New York, and Wyoming, who already bans using temporary insanity defenses, are trying to eliminate the gay panic defense from being used in courtrooms.

I think that the gay panic defense is really stupid and should never be considered as a way to be acquitted of murder against a gay person. No matter how humiliated, embarrassed or whatever kind of emotion was felt, that is no reason to kill someone. Killing someone is still a crime no matter what and whoever does it should be punished. The gay panic defense is a very asinine way to defend yourself from being convicted of a hate crime, which is really what people who use the gay panic defense do. It is a mere excuse.

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1589/is_2005_April_12/ai_n13606961
http://www.gay.com/news/article.html?2006/07/07/1http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_panic_defense
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